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I also feel bad for her because I've seen many people ship their trouble making kids off to live with someone else and it never works.
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princesstabitha wrote:OK. I have this friend who's niece lives with him. When he isn't around or she thinks he is asleep, she is in the bathroom constantly. Sometimes as many as five times in an hour. There is no water running, she doesn't use the bathroom, you don't hear any movement. It is completely still in there. He thinks it is a habit (drugs). I'm pretty sure that it isn't. There are no other signs of a habit. Even if she had one, she would not have a way to feed it. He keeps her so isolated. She can't drive, has no friends, isn't allowed to go out, he keeps all of her things, etc... Plus, I grew up with addicts, she has none of the behavioral or body signs of one. My guess is self mutilation. She will randomly change into sweat clothes after coming out of the bathroom, when it is 80+ degrees outside; then go turn down the air conditioner. What do you all think? And should I say anything to him?
OK. I have this friend who's niece lives with him. When he isn't around or she thinks he is asleep, she is in the bathroom constantly. Sometimes as many as five times in an hour. There is no water running, she doesn't use the bathroom, you don't hear any movement. It is completely still in there. He thinks it is a habit (drugs). I'm pretty sure that it isn't. There are no other signs of a habit. Even if she had one, she would not have a way to feed it. He keeps her so isolated. She can't drive, has no friends, isn't allowed to go out, he keeps all of her things, etc... Plus, I grew up with addicts, she has none of the behavioral or body signs of one. My guess is self mutilation. She will randomly change into sweat clothes after coming out of the bathroom, when it is 80+ degrees outside; then go turn down the air conditioner. What do you all think? And should I say anything to him?
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princesstabitha wrote:I already decided not to say anything either way. I haven't said anything about anything else, I'm not gonna start now. She wears these huge sweat pants a lot with this big ass sweat shirt with a hood. They both have huge pockets. Her room doesn't have a lock. She does have a mirror in her room. She has scars on her arm that seem to re-bleed. Hell he may know. I try not to talk to him about anything concerning her except for her school stuff. I work in the school district so I helped with a lot of that stuff. I'm saying fuck it and if she is she is. Hopefully someone will figure it out if that is what is going on. I'll just keep praying for her. From this, I get that I'm damned if I do or if I don't, so screw it lol.
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princesstabitha wrote:I'll figure it out. Right now I'm kinda confused. Most of the people in this post basically told me I'm a dumbass who doesn't know her place and to get the fuck away from them. A handful are telling me I should keep doing what I am. I feel like a monster perpetuating the problem just because I've been there.
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