So here's the the backstory: Friend just admitted to me that her and her husband are on the outs. He's moved out of the house and has essentially left her SOL. I listened to her vent about it. I lent an nonjudging ear to her predicament and gave as much feedback as I could. I listen and try to be a friend as much as possible. Recently in my own life, I've gotten a little busier. I work nights and days, so my schedule as well as my sleep are all over the place. I also had to some other issues going on with my boyfriend and I that I needed to attend to. Well the other day when I finally got a still moment, my bf was like 'I know your friend is going through some stuff, let's invite her out.' Sounds like a great idea to me. I texted her how and asked how she was doing and if she wanted to go out. Here's the response I got" the truth is (my real name), i'm disappointed that with all I'm going through you don't call and chose to text me.that is not being much of a friend. I'm not mad at your, but I am not feeling much love either. Friendships are not for everyone...I understand." WTF. JJB I'm annoyed at the last part. She's saying I'm not a friend and I don't appreciate that. I've been there for her many times and it's not like she's been calling and I've been ignoring her call. Am I supposed to keep tally of her all the time. JJB, school me on what I should do.
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