I'm browsing CL platonic just to see what is up in my area and have noticed a trend that most women seeking friends are married but in their ad they say something like "Preferably no singles please. I need someone more settled in life. I'm past partying and drinking and am not looking to go out with another woman so that she can find dates. I'm happily married!"
One even said this ... "anyways if your hot in looks and in body dont waste my time cause i know it wouldnt ever work out because i would always think my husband likes you cause you look better, the way i see it is all i have is my hubby and kids and i DONT WANT ANY FEMALE AROUND THATS HOT trying to be bending over infront of him or tryin to wear slutty clothes infront of him or my kids, they never get to see ANYTHING like that so im sure they'd ALL stare at you the whole time if you did and i would be ready for you to leave as soon as you pull in if you get out and try to come in, in your daisy dukes and tube top with cleavage showin...."

Wow this feels like SATC come true. I didn't know being single was all about partying and being a man/attention-stealing harlot. And what's wrong going out as girlfriends with a single friend? Just because she might get hit on in your presence doesn't take away from a marriage .. I don't get it.
If this is how women in my area feel about singles then I'm fuct in the friends department
One even said this ... "anyways if your hot in looks and in body dont waste my time cause i know it wouldnt ever work out because i would always think my husband likes you cause you look better, the way i see it is all i have is my hubby and kids and i DONT WANT ANY FEMALE AROUND THATS HOT trying to be bending over infront of him or tryin to wear slutty clothes infront of him or my kids, they never get to see ANYTHING like that so im sure they'd ALL stare at you the whole time if you did and i would be ready for you to leave as soon as you pull in if you get out and try to come in, in your daisy dukes and tube top with cleavage showin...."
Wow this feels like SATC come true. I didn't know being single was all about partying and being a man/attention-stealing harlot. And what's wrong going out as girlfriends with a single friend? Just because she might get hit on in your presence doesn't take away from a marriage .. I don't get it.
If this is how women in my area feel about singles then I'm fuct in the friends department
