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NancyOttawa wrote:

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kleigh11 wrote:

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Maybe you should take both, separating them seems like it would be so hard on them, you should go meet both before you decide.

Not everyone has space for 2 cats. I live in a small condo and I don't have space for 2 litter boxes either.  She says in the ad she would be ok with separating them.  And of course I'm going to see the cat before I decide.

I have 4 cats and do okay with 2 litter boxes.  You just have to clean them regularly.  I think you could do well with 2 and 1 litter box, and if they are a pair, you can't separate them!  They'll be your buddies  I'm sorry for your loss, losing a pet is just so hard.  I remember when I lost one of my cats, it was unbelievable.  I had been there when he was born, I helped my mom when her cat got pregnant, I was probably 5 and then he got sick with diabetes and after years of needles and insulin, he just got too sick and passed away.  My mom had left the room for something and he passed away as I pet him and told him it was okay to go.  I think I was like 22/23.  It was an amazing experience to be there for his birth and to be there for his passing.  I think the thing that helped with each passing of a pet is getting a new pet.  You aren't replacing them, but they help fill that hole you have now in your heart after losing them.  You'll be surprised by how fast you will start to feel better when you have another pet in your home.  They really do bring the greatest joy and unconditional love.