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First, can I say I cringed a LOT during this episode, with every minute of John's date and with Doug? Oh my Gosh, these two men. NO CONNECTION whatsover with John. It was just... it's like hearing nails on a chalkboard. And the kiss, dear Lord.

Same goes with Doug. Talk about shitty timing and even shittier body language.

And Chris... he was freaking the fuck out from minute one of the episode. I couldn't imagine having to live w/him through his fits. I'd hate to have seen his reaction if she chose John. He admits that he'd freak the hell out and that no one would want to be around him if he lost his temper, yet he says he's good for Emily? What kind of sane woman wants a man that can't handle pressure and has a high tendency to blow up? She should have sent him home too and just not given out a final rose.

Sean, I feel, is a good guy. He's very cute and sweet and has spunk but I feel she's with him, and is keeping him around with hope, because her friends liked him from a few minutes of conversation they had with him -- and they mostly just thought he was hot. A girl wants to believe in the same things her friends do, and when that encouragement is there, the girl will try to open her eyes and wait and "see" what they see, and that's how I feel it is with him. Like, yes he's sweet, but I don't see it long term. Or if it was long term, it'd be the kind where five or ten years down the road (if that), she'd wonder if she made the right choice.

Now with my two front-runners...

Arie was my first pick. First impressions was that he was sexy and I loved his profession. There was something about Arie that just fit into the lifestyle Emily was used to, that she adored and seemed to really long for still. Their ages were close. Their personalities clicked. He's hot and adorable and very, very charming and confident, and that is sexy and appealing. The passion there is evident, and it's always good to want someone and be wanted. I think it's important to get comfortable into the every day life and not always make out, but at the same time, it's also important to shield that spark and don't let it burn out, and I think they could balance both. I do feel like if she picked him and they worked out, she'd be happy and comfortable, and that he'd make his role stand out in her life, not just be that man who is her husband, you know?

But, then there's Jef... and man, Jef has REALLY grown on me. First, he's adorable. He's fresh and cool and relaxed. Jef has that mixture of old soul and young potential, and he seems like he really is the best of both worlds. He could be someone who sits on the swing with you drinking iced tea and relaxing one day, to someone who convinces you to try something new and daring the next. With him, I see more adventure, and there's things to look forward to, to guess on without just knowing what to expect, like she might end up doing with Arie.  Jef's also such a softy, someone who'd be easy to -- and that would make you want to - cozy up with and feel safe and sure around. I love that they seem to have the same wants, and that he really thinks of Ricky and considers Emily's thoughts and opinions and listens to her and doesn't ever try to be anything other than himself in the equation. The fact that they could joke around about their mishaps and be that open spoke volumes.

I do feel like it's the closest race between Arie and Jef. Sean feels way too safe for me. But out of Arie and Jef, I go back and forth, over and over and over again on who I want her to pick, who I think is best for her, who I'd pick personally if I were in her shoes, and so on. And honest to God... I have no idea. Last week it was Arie. Now I'm kinda leaning toward Jef... who knows where I'll be next week.

Guess it depends on how you look at it.

Anyway, I'm back because I wanted to share this too:


Best line of the show, I think.

Anyone know of a live stream? I don't get regular TV here, only Hulu Plus & the internet & I'm impatient as hell...