We met on OkCupid 2 years ago and he had just moved to LA for a job after he graduated law school. I'm in Toronto. We've been talking on skype almost every day for 2 years and I'm finally going to meet him at his cottage in Michigan. I'm staying 4 days. Sex is optional and no pressure is felt. I'm leaving this Sunday... We've both been going on dates in our hometowns during this online "thing" we've been having, for what it's worth.
Is this a bad idea? School me, JJB.
UPDATE: So I'm staying in a hotel. I called him and he was fine with it. I'm still going 12 hours to meet him but will have my own private space. Thanks so much for all the comments. I really appreciate it.