What did you think of them? And how long was it until you started a real relationship?
I just started seeing someone and I want to do things differently and take things slowly. This is all pretty new and scary for me and I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing.
We've only been out a few times so far and I can't decide at all how I feel about him. We haven't kissed or even held hands yet, but I'm already having crazy anxiety about doing those things (nevermind more!
) with him.
The other night I went out with a few coworkers and they were all like "the sex must be so great! it's always so amazing and pretty much all you do at the very beginning of a relationship" and were saying how they don't believe one of our other coworkers who said he hasn't slept with this girl he's only been seeing for maybe 2 weeks yet. I was like uh...is it really like that for everyone? Maybe it's a sign or maybe I'm abnormal for not even wanting that any time soon with this guy?
I've really only had 1 real relationship and we slept together before we started dating, we barely knew each other at the time. Then the other 2 guys I've been with were basically friends with benefits, plus I had known them for a long time before anything ever happened between us. What I'm experiencing now is completely different and I kind of hate it, but I'm literally forcing myself to keep going forward just to see if something might come of it. He's always the one contacting me first and asking me to go out. I can't decide if I'm not into him or if I'm just too used to being on my own or if I'm letting my anxiety get the best of me or...I don't know 
