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Lillies In Bloom wrote:JJB, WHYYYYYYYYY would she ask about me? Why is she wondering what I'm doing, if she didn't care to be my friend ? Why would she even ask, when she blocked me for no apparent reason recently? She blocked me 2-3 months after we never talked. I never called or texted her again. I don't ever in my life want to be her friend. I actually hope the day comes that she tries to reconnect with me when we're much more mature, because I will gladly curse her out. I feel like I have this grudge weighing over me JJB. When I think about it (which is still often), it's almost like it happened yesterday. It doesn't help that she's still pulling shannigans like blocking me. How can I get over this? I have other friends, but this was my longest friendship. I really though we'd be in each other's weddings and whatnot as adults. Sigh.
JJB, WHYYYYYYYYY would she ask about me? Why is she wondering what I'm doing, if she didn't care to be my friend ? Why would she even ask, when she blocked me for no apparent reason recently? She blocked me 2-3 months after we never talked. I never called or texted her again. I don't ever in my life want to be her friend. I actually hope the day comes that she tries to reconnect with me when we're much more mature, because I will gladly curse her out.
I feel like I have this grudge weighing over me JJB. When I think about it (which is still often), it's almost like it happened yesterday. It doesn't help that she's still pulling shannigans like blocking me. How can I get over this? I have other friends, but this was my longest friendship. I really though we'd be in each other's weddings and whatnot as adults. Sigh.
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JCcai wrote:You'll just have to accept the fact the only closure is one that you'll give yourself...
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01/14/2012 4:43 PM
insomniachollie wrote:We have no control on how people choose to act. All we can do is control our reactions. I have found myself having to remember this a lot when it comes to friendship breakdowns/people you fell out with still talking about you/ he-said-she-said etc. A lot of the time we make things harder on ourselves trying to control the uncontrollable or torturing ourselves over it. It's much easier said than done to ignore it and get on with your own stuff but worth doing.
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Manda2119 wrote:It's so hard to remember this. I have literally not spoken to or of my former friend to anyone that we are both acquaintances with. I know I can't control what she's spewing to other people but it's frustrating to see it on say facebook. I'll take the high road, I could call her out on all her shit and I just really want to tell her to keep anything relating to me out of her mouth, forget you knew me if that helps.
01/14/2012 7:01 PM
insomniachollie wrote:Are you me? lolHave to admit, even when I can't actually see/hear it for myself I do sometimes struggle just with knowing that this bullshit version of the story is going around. Even though I know all the important people do know the truth it still kind of sticks in the throat. For all my faults, I'm nothing like I'm being painted to be - that's when it starts to drive me a bit crazy and I have to repeat the mantra about what I can control. I cannot stop people gettign the wrong end of the stick or talking shit, I just have to do what I can do with myself which is to focus on better stuff.
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