I've been dating/in a relationship with this guy since about oct. he has an apartment up here and was living up here when I met him. Something brought him back to his parents house which is 3hrs away. He won't tell me what's going on at home just "family things that I want to keep in the family for now." He comes back up once a week and I spend the night and he goes home the next day around 4pm. We don't have much time together at all. I can't seem to get him to understand that I want to do more than just spend the night together. I get to his place around midnight because thats about the time he gets in from his parents, and then we spend the night together but don't go to bed till 5am. So neither one of us is going to want to get up before noon to do anything. But he's gotta leave the area around 4pm to be home by 7pm for "family things." So we don't have much time together. I've tried explaining this to him and his answer was "i would have gotten up early to do something" its like you can't do movies, or dinner, or bowling at 10am etc. I don't get how to explain to him that I hate the way things are and that it feels more like a friends with benefits then it does a true relationship.
I've tried just telling him all this, but he came back with "how can i make this feel like an actual relationship?" I don't know? Being here would help but that's outta the question for right now. I just hate the way things are and I can't figure out how to make it feel like an actual relationship with it being long distance? help?
I've tried just telling him all this, but he came back with "how can i make this feel like an actual relationship?" I don't know? Being here would help but that's outta the question for right now. I just hate the way things are and I can't figure out how to make it feel like an actual relationship with it being long distance? help?
