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LanceNmyPANTS	No orgasms during sex :(	Lead	[-]
Posts: 5818 11/12/2011 5:00 PM The Lance Fanatic '01 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Tags : None I'm starting to feel like the biggest loser because I'm 30 and I have never been able to have an orgasm during sex. I won't bore anyone with my detailed history, but right now I'm in a relationship with someone I love and am really attracted to, but for some reason I still haven't had an orgasm during sex with him and it is getting really frustrating. I get annoyed because all I want to do is know what it feels like. I'm worried because as good as it feels, I'm starting to feel bitter because he always gets to cum and I don't, although I don't feel it is his fault. It must be something off with me. Anyone else have this problem? Any advice? I feel like I am the only person with this problem...shouldn't it come(cum? ha) naturally and easily? ~Rachel~

NotAffected		#1	[-]
Posts: 1332 11/12/2011 6:15 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Lots of women can't have orgasms during intercourse. I rarely do. It usually takes him giving me head to get it done...
starlightperfume		#2	[-]
Posts: 6100 11/12/2011 10:17 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I'm 27 and never have. I don't have one at all with any kind of sex/foreplay so I just don't have sex. That doesn't help if you're in a relationship though, sorry, but you're not alone.
Prada		#3	[-]
Posts: 2271 11/13/2011 2:18 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Believe it or not, the only man who has ever been able to give me orgasms is my husband! And no, that's not why I married him! lol!
ShakiraFan13		#4	[-]
Posts: 3286 11/13/2011 5:49 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I very RARELY get orgasms during sex, I don't know why but I have a hard time with just him trying to get me off.. I need a toy of some sort as well... Love Mandie
imCATastrophic		#5	[-]
Posts: 3475 11/13/2011 6:15 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	It is rare for me as well, however I've always been more of a giver and it pleases me more to get my husband off. The few times I have, it's been because I had a vibrator going as well. I've always heard that not only is it much harder for women to get off, for some women it's almost impossible during intercourse. So no, there's nothing wrong with you! Try using a toy during sex.
LanceNmyPANTS		#6	[-]
Posts: 5818 11/13/2011 7:21 PM The Lance Fanatic '01 Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Thank you for your responses! Things like this can be hard because my friends are all pretty conservative and never talk about sex, whereas I am like a guy and have no problem whatsoever discussing it! It also never feels good when you feel like you are alone and the only one who experiences this. A toy during sex, so do you mean just use my vibrator? It is pink and shaped like a small penis....hmm...maybe I should invest in a better one! haha I don't know if I want to bust that out. Guys you have been with didn't have a problem with you using a toy? I'm just asking because I'm not sure if it is something that would hurt their egos. ~Rachel~
NotAffected		#7	[-]
Posts: 1332 11/13/2011 9:29 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Use a toy or just your hand... Each guy is different obviously but I would think most guys would want you to fully enjoy yourself during sex, and if that means "helping out" with a toy or whatever I'm sure they'd be cool with it.
SanchezOnFire		#8	[-]
Posts: 3708 11/13/2011 10:18 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Maybe try some lube that enhances your pleasure or just to make things extra wet. Myself it takes different stuff all together to get me there sometimes. I like a lot of foreplay and touching. I like oral and different positions and speeds... basically nothing staying the same. With toys I'd recommend a vibrating bullet. He can try it out on you and see the spots that get you really worked up. Most guys like to do things different in the bedroom too so I'm sure he'd like to try the toy thing out. If it will get you off I can't see why he would object. Maybe you guys can go to a shop together and buy some things that you can both enjoy. Edited By: SanchezOnFire 11/13/2011 10:24 PM. Edited 2 times.
Prada		#9	[-]
Posts: 2271 11/16/2011 6:27 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	FWIW, I can only come when I'm on top (cowgirl style). I think I've only come once or twice being under him. Something about the alignment and the fact that I can control the pressure, body angle, speed, etc. Plus, he can also stimulate me with his fingers if I need a little extra help.
Moochi76		#10	[-]
Posts: 2138 11/17/2011 9:07 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Don't feel alone. I'm 30 & have never been able to achieve orgasm either. I'm currently dating someone and he is always telling me "I want you to cum baby", but unfortunately I end up just getting him off. It sucks. I've tried my hands, him going down on me and alas nothing. I need advice too!! Should I get a certain toy? We're wildly attracted to each other and I have no problem getting wet, but there's never any orgasm. In the same boat JC: We usually just changed our look whenever we feel like it. It's not really a concentrated thing. I was going to shave my whole body bald. <Br> Joey: Yo, too much information. <Br> JC: But I thought that wasn't going to be a good idea. <Br> Joey: I didn't want to hear that, man.<Br>

mrsesnape		#11	[-]
Posts: 22138 11/18/2011 1:48 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Have any of you tried Liquid V Stimulating Gel? It's just for the clitoral area. It's really helped me. It brings bloodflow to that area.
Prada		#12	[-]
Posts: 2271 11/20/2011 7:46 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	mrsesnape wrote: Have any of you tried Liquid V Stimulating Gel? It's just for the clitoral area. It's really helped me. It brings bloodflow to that area. Haven't tried that but I love love love the KY His n' Hers stimulating lube! Wowza!!!!
hiphopsdevilchild		#13	[-]
Posts: 4296 11/25/2011 4:20 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I've never been able to orgasm either. I feel bad because the person I'm seeing tries his hardest to get me to but it just never happens. The sex is great though. I've bought a vibrator to try with him but haven't used it yet. May try the stimulating gel too.
gettindigitalwithjustin		#14	[-]
Posts: 8428 12/20/2011 7:19 PM Justin's Mizzou Tiger Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Girls just aren't designed to be able to get off on sex alone. I usually use my hands while we're having sex, which makes it twice as awesome because I'm getting stimulation in two places simultaneously.
TXbeauty		#15	[-]
Posts: 5993 12/25/2011 2:46 AM Mrs. Clooney Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I used to when I first started dating my ex, but haven't in a LONG while.
SweetP0is0n		#16	[-]
Posts: 1094 01/27/2012 4:51 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I'm 37 and I never have. I am married and have tried multiple times...just doesn't happen. Joanne
Purplelilac82		#17	[-]
Posts: 24644 03/13/2012 10:32 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	I'm so glad there is a post like this. I'm in the same boat. 30 and no orgasm. I can't blame him though. I don't articulate my needs. Not only that but I really don't know what would do it for me. I have a bullet and when I use it, it feels real nice but alas no orgasm. I really would like to have one soon.
joshsbaby1016		#18	[-]
Posts: 3446 04/25/2012 2:18 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Wow, I had no idea so many people have problems like that. That must be so frustrating. I manage to orgasm almost every time I have sex and I don't even really enjoy sex all that much. Using a vibrator definitely helps though. Are you able to have one by yourself in private using a vibrator? Start with that and then introduce it during sex. My husband doesn't mind. Sometimes it's the only way I can get off! - Kristen
EvaLikeThat		#19	[-]
Posts: 20 06/30/2012 11:10 AM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	Men don't usually bring it, they wing. Buy a toy my friend.
PRIORisMYdesire		#20	[-]
Posts: 20847 07/08/2012 5:37 PM Reply Quote More Recent Posts	When I'm on top that does it for me. It's all about stimulating the clitoris.

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