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OMGzitsagirl wrote:he tells me SO many both emotionally and sexually inappropriate things. If you read the transcript of our conversations, you would 100% think we are together. Every other word is telling each other how much we like each other; how much we can't get enough; how beautiful he thinks I am; how much we want each other; etc. BUT, we've never really even kissed. He touches me all the time, in a tease-you kind of way like rubbing your thigh or brushing against your ass
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imCATastrophic wrote:You are already starting to defend his actions, no matter how much you say you are trying to "distance" yourself. You should have cut it off the minute you knew he had a girlfriend. They have had three years together to make memories, become part of each others families, take a step towards making a life together by moving in together. He has gotten bored with what he has at home, and like someone else said, he's found a shiny new toy to play with. Are you seriously trying to romanticize him to anyone? He is a piece of shit and so are you for continuing this after learning he had a girlfriend. In the words of Tyler Durden, you are not a unique snowflake. And you are NOTHING more than a game to him! So save yourself the embarrassment, stop this now, and don't waste your time giving him ultimatums. Find someone who is SINGLE, and who is NOT willing to cheat on his girlfriend. The only kind of woman who would want that kind of man is one who is desperate for attention. You might be a great person but you are making a really shitty decision by seeing this guy behind his girlfriend's back.
11/11/2011 5:43 PM
OMGzitsagirl wrote:I really was hoping this wouldn't turn into a moral smack down...I'm not here to fight, I just will say that from what I know of him I would not characterize him at all as a "bad person."
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BUT, we've never really even kissed. He touches me all the time, in a tease-you kind of way like rubbing your thigh or brushing against your ass, but he will not give me an "open mouth" kiss (closed mouth is ok). I make fun of him for it, and he says it's because he knows it would be game over if he really kissed me and he'd go all the way. He says he's scared of me, and talks about me as if I am some kind of witch, with a "strange power" over him. When I tell him he seems bored with his relationship and "over it," he agrees but doesn't seem to have any plans to leave it. In fact, he asks for my "secrecy" and talks about all he would "lose" if he went too far with me (which I think he already has...) He seems in a constant moral/psychological conflict. He is religious.
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Antevorta114 wrote:I'm done with this post as soon as I type this reply.No matter what any of us say, you will defend this boy and his actions. Clearly, the only one doing anything wrong is his girlfriend by merely existing and for falling for him in the first place, right?Give him the ultimatum and you will be shocked as to how fast he disappears from your life. You are only fun right now because you are "off limits" and "dangerous" by being the other girl in the equation. Your "romantic' man is a master manipulator because the only one that will be upset by the end of the affair is YOU.Finally, girls like you make my head hurt all the while I'm mourning the future of my gender. Good luck with all this and don't say we didn't warn you.
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