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madonna1216 wrote:Had a falling out YEARS ago and I miss her. I tried to get in touch with her and she ignored my request. Should I keep trying or let bygones be bygones? There was no dram. I was going through personal issues, didn't know how to deal and fell off the face of the earth. As the years went by I became more and more embarrassed about the situation, now I just want to talk to her:(
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insomniachollie wrote: It must have been about 7 years or so since I last spoke to her. As far as forgiveness goes... yes in the sense that I certainly don't wish her ill or think she's a bitch, I've moved on from hating her. But no in that I don't think I could ever revive the friendship. Wouldn't feel like I could rely on her or let my guard down after that
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madonna1216 wrote:@westcoaster: were you able to maintain the same level of friendship or is it different now? I'd like to aplogize to her in person, but it's not happening. I was thinking of just writing her a letter.
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insomniachollie wrote: .... People make mistakes and you sound like you genuinely regret it. I'm just trying to offer the other side of the story - no matter how embarrassed you may be and how much you'd like to make it right, when you hurt somebody that badly sometimes there's no going back. You've done what you can in reaching out and offering contact, but you should respect her decision in regards to whether or not she wants to reply rather than continuing to push. If she doesn't want to talk to you... at least you tried.
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