What. the. Hell.? Back story: About 20 years ago a former male high-school classmate of mine ended up dating one of my co-workers at my first job out of high school. They dated and broke up and life continued. She and I worked together for 4 additional years and she was even a bridesmaid in my wedding. She got married the same year I did, 1999 and moved to san francisco and we lost touch.
A few months ago I get a facebook message from the male classmate wanting to know if I still kept in touch with co-worker. I told him no and we Facebook messaged for a bit and that was it. Fast forward to today: I receive a TEXT MESSAGE from him asking simply if I have heard from her. I have no idea how he got my phone number. I don't have it on my facebook and I would not have given it to him. I knew it had to be him because he was our only mutual acquaintance, and the only one who would know her first and last name. I told him again that no, it has been years. He is pelting me with questions like what her married name is, her sisters name, is she a nurse, etc.
He will ask a couple of questions about me then say "you can't remember her married name?" I keep saying that I haven't heard from her since 1999 so I know nothing, but he keeps implying that if I think hard I will remember info. Oh and in the middle of all these texts he tells me he is happily married with two kids. Oh really?
Talk about creeper. I remember after the last time we talked I was going to try to find her on facebook because she was a sweet girl back then and I wanted to get in touch, but I'm afraid to now. If he ever finds out I am friends with her on facebook he may go on to stalk the poor girl.
A few months ago I get a facebook message from the male classmate wanting to know if I still kept in touch with co-worker. I told him no and we Facebook messaged for a bit and that was it. Fast forward to today: I receive a TEXT MESSAGE from him asking simply if I have heard from her. I have no idea how he got my phone number. I don't have it on my facebook and I would not have given it to him. I knew it had to be him because he was our only mutual acquaintance, and the only one who would know her first and last name. I told him again that no, it has been years. He is pelting me with questions like what her married name is, her sisters name, is she a nurse, etc.
He will ask a couple of questions about me then say "you can't remember her married name?" I keep saying that I haven't heard from her since 1999 so I know nothing, but he keeps implying that if I think hard I will remember info. Oh and in the middle of all these texts he tells me he is happily married with two kids. Oh really?
Talk about creeper. I remember after the last time we talked I was going to try to find her on facebook because she was a sweet girl back then and I wanted to get in touch, but I'm afraid to now. If he ever finds out I am friends with her on facebook he may go on to stalk the poor girl.
