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waitwhat wrote:So wait, are they ditching you? Or did I read that wrong?
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kitty walker wrote:waitwhat wrote:So wait, are they ditching you? Or did I read that wrong?They want to go, they just don't want to go out of their way to drive her home.
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waitwhat wrote:kitty walker wrote:waitwhat wrote:So wait, are they ditching you? Or did I read that wrong?They want to go, they just don't want to go out of their way to drive her home.But they don't even want to share a hotel room with her. That seems a little mean.
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kitty walker wrote:Yeah because once she said she didn't want to drive out of her way, birthday girl cancelled the trip. They said "See ya" and booked a trip for themselves. I don't blame them at all.
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curiousgeoff wrote:it sounds to me like the money is not the issue for them.. maybe the OP was acting entitled or bitchy or something, and isn't telling us the whole truth.. If they are still going, paying more.. and basically driving the same amount regardless of the OP going or not... it seems like maybe the issue is actually the birthday girl herself.
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That your "friend" initially agreed to drop you off, but later backed out, suggests an unreliable nature to put it diplomaticly. That she did this on the occasion of your birthday weekend, and considering that you had been able to secure a considerable discount for her and the others, also suggests an ungrateful spirit. I wonder if up to this point she had been a quality friend or has she ever displayed any inkling of this type of nature before.In any event, you could look at it from a positive angle and say that she has revealed a side to her personality that it's better to find out about sooner, rather then later. If you are the kind of friend that is loyal and willing to go the extra mile for a friend, then you should be able to expect the same in return. If it's not forthcoming, then maybe it's not a friendship worth continuing unless you are willing to give more then you receive in return.
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