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Lo Timbalake wrote:I'm sorry, in what way are you independent? It seems to me you are completely dependent on your parents and are looking for some way to assert yourself, but instead of taking responsibility for yourself you're lording it over your loser boyfriend.How about... move back to where you're from, get a job, dump the moron and make some better choices? Because you're moving down a slippery slope and need to deal with the real issue; by taking control of your life, you might actually learn to respect yourself and end up with a worthwhile guy.
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NoRegRets4JuJu wrote: I think i may have made him feel guilty and stressed out
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NoRegRets4JuJu wrote: I've been talking about it with him for the past hour or so and he hasn't once said i'm being unreasonable or flipped it on me. I think i may have made him feel guilty and stressed out but lets be honest, if he feels guilty that's because he knows he was doing something wrong. I told him that although he tight for money he can help out around the house, it would certainly ease the pressure, and he knows that he should be doing that stuff.
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NoRegRets4JuJu wrote:celebtrashwhore wrote: NoRegRets4JuJu wrote: I told him to get another key, but the wireless access to get in is $50 bucks and you have to chase down the building manager to do it, which he doesn't want to do. The apartment is mine, he's living here rent free since I've got a 1 bedroom place all to myself and the lease says just one occupant living here, so that's why I was givien only one set of keys for the place.Wait what?I was going to say "just make another key" but Im not sure what this ^^ means. Why dont you guys just make your own set of keys? People make extras even if they live alone to give to a family member or friend in case of an emergency. The front door works on a wireless FOB that you wave infront of the door to get into the actual building. To get an extra FOB you have to contact the building management and pay $50, which I told him to do but he didn't want to. I'm just saying that when i started renting out the place they only gave me one set of keys (one ot get into the condo and one for my actual front door).
celebtrashwhore wrote: NoRegRets4JuJu wrote: I told him to get another key, but the wireless access to get in is $50 bucks and you have to chase down the building manager to do it, which he doesn't want to do. The apartment is mine, he's living here rent free since I've got a 1 bedroom place all to myself and the lease says just one occupant living here, so that's why I was givien only one set of keys for the place.Wait what?I was going to say "just make another key" but Im not sure what this ^^ means. Why dont you guys just make your own set of keys? People make extras even if they live alone to give to a family member or friend in case of an emergency.
NoRegRets4JuJu wrote: I told him to get another key, but the wireless access to get in is $50 bucks and you have to chase down the building manager to do it, which he doesn't want to do. The apartment is mine, he's living here rent free since I've got a 1 bedroom place all to myself and the lease says just one occupant living here, so that's why I was givien only one set of keys for the place.
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Samantha James wrote:Lo Timbalake wrote:I'm sorry, in what way are you independent? It seems to me you are completely dependent on your parents and are looking for some way to assert yourself, but instead of taking responsibility for yourself you're lording it over your loser boyfriend.How about... move back to where you're from, get a job, dump the moron and make some better choices? Because you're moving down a slippery slope and need to deal with the real issue; by taking control of your life, you might actually learn to respect yourself and end up with a worthwhile guy.
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Nicks Twinkie wrote:Can't YOU (not your boyfriend) get a spare?
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thread killer 00 wrote:NoRegRets4JuJu wrote: I think i may have made him feel guilty and stressed outUm, OF COURSE he's stressed out! Look at it from his perspective: he doesn't pay rent, he has a personal chauffeur, a personal doorman since you open doors for him at all hours, I assume you two are fucking so he gets sex, he doesn't clean up, he doesn't pay any bills, and you give him money on top of that. Of COURSE he's going to say that he'll change, he's sorry, he understands, because he doesn't want to lose out on the sweet ass deal he has right now, living with you. He doesn't want to piss you off because he knows it all might change now that you're catching on that he treats you like shit, and then he'd have to actually be an adult if you kick him out.
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Nicks Twinkie wrote: NoRegRets4JuJu wrote: celebtrashwhore wrote: Wait what?I was going to say "just make another key" but Im not sure what this ^^ means. Why dont you guys just make your own set of keys? People make extras even if they live alone to give to a family member or friend in case of an emergency. The front door works on a wireless FOB that you wave infront of the door to get into the actual building. To get an extra FOB you have to contact the building management and pay $50, which I told him to do but he didn't want to. I'm just saying that when i started renting out the place they only gave me one set of keys (one ot get into the condo and one for my actual front door).Can't YOU (not your boyfriend) get a spare?
NoRegRets4JuJu wrote: celebtrashwhore wrote: Wait what?I was going to say "just make another key" but Im not sure what this ^^ means. Why dont you guys just make your own set of keys? People make extras even if they live alone to give to a family member or friend in case of an emergency. The front door works on a wireless FOB that you wave infront of the door to get into the actual building. To get an extra FOB you have to contact the building management and pay $50, which I told him to do but he didn't want to. I'm just saying that when i started renting out the place they only gave me one set of keys (one ot get into the condo and one for my actual front door).
celebtrashwhore wrote: Wait what?I was going to say "just make another key" but Im not sure what this ^^ means. Why dont you guys just make your own set of keys? People make extras even if they live alone to give to a family member or friend in case of an emergency.
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