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05/31/2010 10:03 PM
LostYoMind wrote:I kind of feel bad, cause you had a rational response to my mocking comment. I was just making an as irrational statement as I thought the OP's was.
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05/31/2010 10:06 PM
LostYoMind wrote: Smallville78 wrote: LostYoMind wrote: women shouldn't spread their legs to men who will run away from consequences.well that is good in theory, but there are a lot of guys that say they will be there to support the child, some may stay for a few years then take off. when a guy carries the baby for 9 months and gives birth. then he has a choice. im very clear that im childfree and will never have kids. so i dont get in that situation. if a guy tells me he wants kids then i wont date himI kind of feel bad, cause you had a rational response to my mocking comment. I was just making an as irrational statement as I thought the OP's was.
Smallville78 wrote: LostYoMind wrote: women shouldn't spread their legs to men who will run away from consequences.well that is good in theory, but there are a lot of guys that say they will be there to support the child, some may stay for a few years then take off. when a guy carries the baby for 9 months and gives birth. then he has a choice. im very clear that im childfree and will never have kids. so i dont get in that situation. if a guy tells me he wants kids then i wont date him
LostYoMind wrote: women shouldn't spread their legs to men who will run away from consequences.
05/31/2010 10:11 PM
LostYoMind wrote: when it lives in you, you get the final say. It's just the way it is.
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06/01/2010 8:26 AM
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06/01/2010 8:50 AM
oldbiewankanobi wrote:I He told her he wasn't ready emotionally and financially to care for a child at that point in his life -- he needed to go to university and all that... And he's stuck with this stigma of being a deadbeat dad and I don't think that's entirely fair... Yes, accidents happen, but if it takes 2 people to procreate, then those same 2 people need to mutually agree on the decision to keep, abort, or give the baby away for adoption. It's not fair for just the woman to make the decision.
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06/01/2010 10:29 AM
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06/01/2010 10:32 AM
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AVFswimmin wrote:Men can walk away. Therefore, this thread that is sure to turn into 439420 pages of bitching doesn't even need to happen.
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06/01/2010 10:43 AM
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AeroSync9 wrote: My opinion is that if it takes 2 people to create life and it takes 2 people to mutually decide to have unprotected sex then 2 people should decide what happens afterwards. Yes it's the woman's body and she has to go through carrying the child and the pains of labor, but as a woman, I feel the man should get a say so in the after affects of sex. Woman doesn't want the baby, but the man does then fine after she gives birth she signs her parental rights away and gives him the child.
06/01/2010 10:51 AM
Heather125 wrote: AeroSync9 wrote: My opinion is that if it takes 2 people to create life and it takes 2 people to mutually decide to have unprotected sex then 2 people should decide what happens afterwards. Yes it's the woman's body and she has to go through carrying the child and the pains of labor, but as a woman, I feel the man should get a say so in the after affects of sex. Woman doesn't want the baby, but the man does then fine after she gives birth she signs her parental rights away and gives him the child.That's a wonderful thought but how many guys do you think would ACTUALLY be willing to take the baby? With most of them, I'm sure they're all talk until it comes time for a little bit of responsibility. After the woman carries the baby for 9 months, gives birth, and guy decides he doesn't want it...what next? Adoption, sure, but that's not fair to the woman. She had to carry the baby, she had to give birth to it and he can just walk away.I don't care if the guy didn't want it in the first place, that baby is now his financial obligation. He chose to have unprotected sex, he knows the consequences. Shit happens. Just because the woman decided she wants to keep the baby doesn't mean he can just run away. That's not fair to her and it's not fair to the baby.
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06/01/2010 11:02 AM
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06/01/2010 11:09 AM
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06/01/2010 11:24 AM
why you crying wrote:If it's always the woman's choice to keep her baby or not, with the man allowed no opinion because it's not his body, why must the man always take responsibility for the child no matter what his feelings are on the situation?I mean, everyone on here is always pro-choice, pro-choice, it's a woman's right to choose. Well, if the man doesn't agree with that choice, shouldn't it be his right to walk away?
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