My mom died 3 weeks ago and its been a custerfuck since. My husband and I took money out of a retirement account to pay for her services. Services were close
to 15 and with the penalty for early withdrawal it was closer to 19Ktaken out of the account. My siblings are 10 years older and don't have any money and
couldn't pay for anything. My husband said he would split the costs three ways and would offer an interest free loan up to 4 years and they could pay their
part back. Here is where it gets bad, my mom has me listed as her sole beneficiary. She has little money so its under 4K that will be cashed out to me. My
husband says the right thing is to split it 33% He is more then likely correct, however part of me says we lost out on 4K that could be collecting interest if
we still had that instead of paying a penalty. (We had our part cash, it was the others we needed to cover) What would you do with the money left? I say use it
to cover the loss we took and reinvest, my husband says give each sibling a part, and wait for them to pay us back.
I need a secondary view on something, help!
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