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Not that big of a deal but last year I went out of town to see my friend for Halloween (she lives like 90 mi. from me and I don't see her often). Anyway on one of the days of the weekend we switched costumes. Well, we never ended up returning each other's costumes. This year she wore my costume again and told me she was gonna wear it. Well, I want it back. I still have her costume I could return it as well (but her's is significantly cheaper than mine so I don't know if she even wants it back). So how would you go about arranging or bringing this up with a friend? I dont want to sound like a cheapskate. Should I offer to pay her to ship me my costume? I really love it and honestly I was a little *blech* that she was wearing it again this year. I want to keep it in good condition.