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08/06/2009 8:32 PM
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KristinWasBanned wrote: Ask if you can bring your boyfriend. If she says no, tell her you can't make it.
08/06/2009 8:33 PM
Momobobo wrote: So could it just be you assuming that she doesn't want him there? I just don't see what would make you think that he can't. I'm confused by this.
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08/06/2009 8:34 PM
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IHeartDrDorian wrote: KristinWasBanned wrote: Ask if you can bring your boyfriend. If she says no, tell her you can't make it. Is that super-bitchy though?
IHeartDrDorian wrote: Momobobo wrote: So could it just be you assuming that she doesn't want him there? I just don't see what would make you think that he can't. I'm confused by this. Because once before I asked her if he could come to some other event, where guys were present - and she told me that she'd rather him not come.
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08/06/2009 8:35 PM
Suzy321 wrote: Out of curiosity, will there be any guys there? I had a friend who would bring along her boyfriend to everythingggggg and everyone else had just come solo so it would be awkward. Maybe she's trying to prevent that? Just ask her if he can come.
Momobobo wrote: IHeartDrDorian wrote: Momobobo wrote: So could it just be you assuming that she doesn't want him there? I just don't see what would make you think that he can't. I'm confused by this. Because once before I asked her if he could come to some other event, where guys were present - and she told me that she'd rather him not come. And it didn't occur to you to ask why?
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08/06/2009 8:36 PM
08/06/2009 8:37 PM
IHeartDrDorian wrote: Momobobo wrote: IHeartDrDorian wrote: Momobobo wrote: So could it just be you assuming that she doesn't want him there? I just don't see what would make you think that he can't. I'm confused by this. Because once before I asked her if he could come to some other event, where guys were present - and she told me that she'd rather him not come. And it didn't occur to you to ask why? I hate confrontation.
08/06/2009 8:38 PM
Momobobo wrote: IHeartDrDorian wrote: Momobobo wrote: IHeartDrDorian wrote: Momobobo wrote: So could it just be you assuming that she doesn't want him there? I just don't see what would make you think that he can't. I'm confused by this. Because once before I asked her if he could come to some other event, where guys were present - and she told me that she'd rather him not come. And it didn't occur to you to ask why? I hate confrontation. WHAT? How is it confrontational to ask her why? I have to leave this post.
08/06/2009 8:39 PM
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08/06/2009 8:42 PM
IHeartDrDorian wrote: Audrey. I have no idea. That's what I don't understand either. Especially when we went out to a bar. Like why can't he come when we are at the bar and other guys are coming? I'm not going to be flirting/dancing with any guys and it kind of would make me feel a little uncomfortable.
Momobobo wrote: IHeartDrDorian wrote: Audrey. I have no idea. That's what I don't understand either. Especially when we went out to a bar. Like why can't he come when we are at the bar and other guys are coming? I'm not going to be flirting/dancing with any guys and it kind of would make me feel a little uncomfortable. Ok, until you sweep up all ball parts around you to grow a pair, you can't complain about this EVER again! I want to call your friend.
08/06/2009 8:43 PM
AudaciousAudrey wrote: Don't let her control you. Either show up with your bf and if she has a problem with it, she can talk to you about it OR don't show up at all and say you're sorry but you have plans.
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