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Spamster wrote: Yes. Not like first date or anything but yeah.
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CamiDawg wrote: Yeah, I've told my boyfriend the same: I love you, but don't waste my child-bearing years! I think it's good to bring it up because if you aren't going to be happy or think the person's going to change their mind then things can get worse. We just have to hope they are honest though, because they could say "sure i want kids" but really don't.
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CamiDawg wrote: Damn, this makes me want to bring it up again with my boyfriend. We've been together 6 years and I don't think I really know where he stands on this issue, at least with a definite YES to marriage and YES to children. Is it reasonable to expect a definite YES? Also, how about if things change? I think in the beginning I was very anti-marriage, but for some reason I've been really considering it a lot more. That changes things, I think!
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CamiDawg wrote: ALSO, usually when we talk about this we will talk about "the person we marry" and never just us. We haven't really gotten to the point where I'm saying "when I marry you..." Too complicated!
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CamiDawg wrote: The conversation has definitely come up...but in a very casual way. I say I think I want to get married, he says he thinks so too, eventually. He's not ready for kids now, but would like them, maybe. We're both 23. I guess what I'm wondering is should I be getting a definite yes or no. I've also been a but flip-floppy also, so maybe it's time for me to say that I do definitely want to get married and have kids (maybe not ready to do both at this moment) and see what he says. ALSO, usually when we talk about this we will talk about "the person we marry" and never just us. We haven't really gotten to the point where I'm saying "when I marry you..." Too complicated!
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