Someone who isn't in your immediate family or who lives with you?
My brother's friend (who's more my age than his) is seriously here 24/7 and it's starting to grate on my last nerve. He's just here ALL the time. It wouldn't be that bad, but between the two of them they're always making a mess, eating/drinking everything in the house, hogging the tv and whatever room they're in/floor they're on, etc. I can rarely get anything done outside of my room when he's here and sometimes, especially if I'm not feeling good, I want to be able to leave my room looking/feeling like crap and not feel uncomfortable but I never can. I haven't said anything for about 2 years about this, but now that I graduated and don't have homework (which used to keep me in my room pretty often) I want to be able to enjoy whatever free time I have (which still isn't too much since I work a lot) sometimes either alone in the house or just with my family or doing whatever I want to do in the house, but it's just not happening because he is ALWAYS here. I'm not saying I don't want him or anyone else at the house ever, but there's no need for it to be every second of every day...especially when he has his own house (no problems at home that makes him want to stay away from there..he has a good relationship with his family) and supposedly a girlfriend too.
Ugh, okay...I just had to rant about it for a few seconds because I'm having one of those "I feel and look like crap" moments and when I walked out of my room he was right there, as usual.
My brother's friend (who's more my age than his) is seriously here 24/7 and it's starting to grate on my last nerve. He's just here ALL the time. It wouldn't be that bad, but between the two of them they're always making a mess, eating/drinking everything in the house, hogging the tv and whatever room they're in/floor they're on, etc. I can rarely get anything done outside of my room when he's here and sometimes, especially if I'm not feeling good, I want to be able to leave my room looking/feeling like crap and not feel uncomfortable but I never can. I haven't said anything for about 2 years about this, but now that I graduated and don't have homework (which used to keep me in my room pretty often) I want to be able to enjoy whatever free time I have (which still isn't too much since I work a lot) sometimes either alone in the house or just with my family or doing whatever I want to do in the house, but it's just not happening because he is ALWAYS here. I'm not saying I don't want him or anyone else at the house ever, but there's no need for it to be every second of every day...especially when he has his own house (no problems at home that makes him want to stay away from there..he has a good relationship with his family) and supposedly a girlfriend too.
Ugh, okay...I just had to rant about it for a few seconds because I'm having one of those "I feel and look like crap" moments and when I walked out of my room he was right there, as usual.
What's funny is the other night a few of my
friends came over and my brother was all "when are they going to leave?" everytime he saw me even though they were only over for like 5 hours and we
just hung out in one room...a room he NEVER uses.
