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baybeehk	my fiance is cheating on me.....FML	Lead	[-]
Posts: 436 (06/17/2009 6:17 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	i can't take it anymore.....i have caught this guy several times in the last 2 years. i've found emails, myspace messages, pictures, text messages ALL confirming that he's been talking to other women. i even got in a physical fight over this guy!!! last night he didn't come home and I'VE HAD IT!!!!! i thought he would change but I GUESS NOT! 7 years down the drain........FML!!!!! i know it's childish and immature, but any ideas on revenge??
berg123		#1	[-]
Posts: 664 (06/17/2009 6:19 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Just dump him.
rokhas1yummybumbum		#2	[-]
Posts: 14336 (06/17/2009 6:20 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	how long have you been engaged? If you knew he was a cheater before you were engaged, you kind of deserve it.
TYCP Sha		#3	[-]
Posts: 96898 (06/17/2009 6:20 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I don't get why you're putting up with his shit. Kick him to the curb now.
cls2		#4	[-]
Posts: 6632 (06/17/2009 6:20 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Revenge? Not worth it. You've spent too much time on him already. End it and do what you have to do to move on.
Lancelina		#5	[-]
Posts: 3932 (06/17/2009 6:20 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Not really down the drain cause you probably learned a lot. But yeah, just leave him, break all contact.
insomniac19		#6	[-]
Posts: 76193 (06/17/2009 6:20 PM) JJBer of the Year '01 JJB Debater '02 Best Fan Fic Writer '08 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	What is the saying? The best revenge is a good life or something like that. My question is if you've caught this guy multiple times over 7 years why the HELL are you still with him and why would you even entertain the idea of marrying him?!
baybeehk		#7	[-]
Posts: 437 (06/17/2009 6:20 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	easier said than done.
orangepeel19		#8	[-]
Posts: 11626 (06/17/2009 6:21 PM) Friendliest JJBer '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Break up. Why would you take it more than once if you KEPT catching him? He ain't no prize
Samantha James		#9	[-]
Posts: 14042 (06/17/2009 6:21 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	You've already suffered enough. Don't go off and do some illegal shit and wind up in trouble. Just end it and be done.
baybeehk		#10	[-]
Posts: 438 (06/17/2009 6:22 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	it's hard leaving him when he keeps denying what he's done and he keeps telling me he wants to marry me. we also lease a condo together, and we share all our expenses.
berg123		#11	[-]
Posts: 665 (06/17/2009 6:23 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	But you caught him! Several times! If he does it again, it's on you. What's that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
baybeehk		#12	[-]
Posts: 439 (06/17/2009 6:24 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	ugh, i know. it's going to be so hard......
OhManImScrewed		#13	[-]
Posts: 16908 (06/17/2009 6:25 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I don't see how it's hard when you know he's been boinking other girls. That would disgust me and it'd be real easy to get rid of him. Splitting up the finances will be hard, but it's definitely necessary.
Certainly Not Dcutie		#14	[-]
Posts: 15977 (06/17/2009 6:26 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	And this was the person you were going to marry?
blindpilot		#15	[-]
Posts: 1061 (06/17/2009 6:26 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	berg123 wrote: But you caught him! Several times! If he does it again, it's on you. What's that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. I prefer 'Fool me once, shame on me, fool me twice, shame about whats gonna happen to your face'
ToniBFan1		#16	[-]
Posts: 2027 (06/17/2009 6:28 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Leave his butt you deserve better
iwantjcslips		#17	[-]
Posts: 17527 (06/17/2009 6:29 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Just ask yourself, Is this really what you wanna go through for the rest of your life? I know it's really hard to think about leaving him, but think about how much harder it'll be with 20+ yrs added on, when you realize you've wasted your life on him.
VelvetRope11		#18	[-]
Posts: 30721 (06/17/2009 6:29 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	His ass isn't even worth the thought and time revenge would take. Leave, take the lessons learned, and work hard to live better, live well, and be happy.
baybeehk		#19	[-]
Posts: 440 (06/17/2009 6:30 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	yeah, it just pisses me off that he won't admit what he's done. it's like a small part of me just wants to beleive him....i've never loved someone so much. i don't understand why he's done this to me. i was with him when he had nothing....and always stuck by his side and he completely took advantage of me. i guess it's partially my fault that he keeps doing this....he knows i'll never leave his ass.
groovydee4		#20	[-]
Posts: 609 (06/17/2009 6:31 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	baybeehk wrote: i thought he would change Why? I'm really not trying to be mean, but I always wonder why it is that people believe that serial-cheaters will change when all evidence seems to point in the other direction. Was his behavior different or did he just make lots of promises? Sorry that you're going through this, but at least you found out before you got married. Move on and be happy.

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