I've realized, after having a big fight with my husband 10 minutes ago, that I am always the first to apologize even if I am not in the wrong. Now I'm
even more angry. 
When you fight with your s/o who apologizes first?
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When you fight with your s/o who apologizes first? |
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 AngelsTearDrop |
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Posts: 21347 (05/29/2009 9:54 PM) |
He does.
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Nico Corvus |
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Posts: 45403 (05/29/2009 9:55 PM) |
Mine holds a grudge for forever. Annoying. Then I call his ass out.
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Hard Rock Dazzles |
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Posts: 2767 (05/29/2009 9:56 PM) |
we're pretty even but it takes a long ass time to get to apologizing
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folk face |
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Posts: 241 (05/29/2009 9:56 PM) |
he does most often
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sjk1010 |
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Posts: 1213 (05/29/2009 9:57 PM) |
We've never fought yet...that freaks me out a little since it has to happen sometime. Scared once we do it'll be a blowout!
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Savannah Leigh |
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Posts: 623 (05/29/2009 9:58 PM) Most Likely to Reply '09
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^ How long have you been together?
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sjk1010 |
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Posts: 1214 (05/29/2009 10:00 PM) |
Us? 9 months
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AudaciousAudrey |
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Posts: 26270 (05/29/2009 10:00 PM) Biggest Know It All '09
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We haven't really had a fight... sometimes I'll get mad at him and then he apologizes or vice-versa, but we've never been like not speaking or
anything.
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Ives0509 |
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Posts: 1794 (05/29/2009 10:01 PM) |
We have stupid little disagreements, usually we just both apologize & get over it. If it's something big, we talk it out and then we usually apologize
to each other for being douches.
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SmoothlikeButta |
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Posts: 11380 (05/29/2009 10:03 PM) |
AudaciousAudrey wrote: We'll go a few hours without speaking, but then I always end up saying sorry because I don't like to go to bed angry. We've been together for 2 years, married since February, and I swear we fight so much more now that we're married.
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alexisfan4ever22 |
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Posts: 2570 (05/29/2009 10:06 PM) |
I'm not in a relationship currently but I'm usually the one that apologizes first, even when it's not my fault. I hate fighting with people.
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Ninido |
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Posts: 6926 (05/29/2009 10:17 PM) |
it really depends. sometimes neither of us really apologize, we both just sort of drop it? lol. [well, we just broke up for the time being on Tues, but before
thaat lol]
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kelli wk |
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Posts: 17349 (05/29/2009 10:21 PM) |
we never FIGHT like a full on argument but we have little ones sometimes. I have a rule where I refuse to go to bed with any bad feelings so we always work it
out. I usually cry and apologize even if I didn't do anything.
I hate fighting that much.
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coboardgirl |
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Posts: 7327 (05/29/2009 10:24 PM) |
It depends. It's about even, probably.
He will never let us go to sleep angry/still in a fight, though. |
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StellaXOXOXO |
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Posts: 5892 (05/29/2009 10:29 PM) |
He always does.
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jbcox2002 |
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Posts: 6036 (05/29/2009 10:32 PM) |
Honestly, I can hold a grudge Ha. He always ends up folding and apologizing for screwing up because he can't stand me not talking to him. He has this habit
of us getting in a fight, and then just thinking it will just go away or something with time. He hopes he wont' have to say he's sorry.... so "I
just hold a grudge till he says something ha.
NOW.... if I realize I am wrong I do apologize. I'm just not the one wrong that often 
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elled211 |
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Posts: 497 (05/29/2009 10:36 PM) |
Me. He doesn't apologize, but he'll try to make me laugh for the next hour... which is frustrating but cute, I guess.
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rokhas1yummybumbum |
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Posts: 14131 (05/29/2009 11:01 PM) |
AudaciousAudrey wrote: |
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Posts: 1912 (05/29/2009 11:09 PM) |
I always say "sorry" first even if I wasn't in the wrong because he has this way of making me feel guilty and I just cave just to end it.
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jawnyquest.niketalk |
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Posts: 1021 (05/29/2009 11:11 PM) Best Use of Emoticon award '09
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i apologize during the fight to shut her up
and she always just keeps going on and on 
then i fall back and ignore her.. she apologizes the following morning |
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