If your BF you have been dating for 6 months said he couldn't go out with you on Saturday night cause he had a reception to go to and you were okay with it
because you figured it was for someone you didn't know and maybe he didn't get an invitation for two....and then he tells you the day of it's his
BROTHER'S reception? I might be overreacting but that really pissed me off and more than anything hurt my feelings. I'm up and down about this guy
anyway and I just feel like crap right now.
Ladies, Would this piss you off?
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Posts: 8271 (03/28/2009 1:02 PM) |
What do you mean by reception? Reception for what? I'm confused
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Posts: 2949 (03/28/2009 1:04 PM) |
He may just not be that into you as horrible and cliched as that sounds. But I mean, dang!!! You definitely were supposed to be his +1 in that situation. He tried the fuck outta you for real. |
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Posts: 2756 (03/28/2009 1:04 PM) |
Before jumping to conclusions, has he said why he didn't invite you? Was it his decision or someone elses? Do you know/are close to the brother?
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Posts: 25720 (03/28/2009 1:07 PM) |
Maybe he didn't get a plus one?
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Posts: 11957 (03/28/2009 1:08 PM) |
I would assume he isn't that serious about the relationship but to be fair, you said you're up and down about him also.
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Posts: 436 (03/28/2009 1:08 PM) |
Hp5010 wrote:He didn't say anything about why he didnt' invite me. When he first mentioned having to go to this reception he totally mentioned it like it was some random obligation of his and I assumed it was for a friend at church or something and he didn't get an invite for two. So when he told me it was for his brother I was highly offended. I can't imagine any reason why I wouldn't be allowed to come....it's his brother's very casual (from the sound of it) reception. While I'm not "close" to his brother, I have met him and his whole family and I think it's very weird that I'm not invited. When we first started dating my BF invited me to Thanksgiving and Christmas with his family....now I'm not being invited to anything it seems. I don't know...maybe I'm overreacting but my feelings are way hurt. |
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Posts: 1663 (03/28/2009 1:09 PM) |
How close are you with his family, extended family and family friends? If you're close then yes I'd be peeved, otherwise no, since it is family and
maybe he just wanted to enjoy the event with them?! Otherwise I don't know why else he wouldn't invite you.
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Posts: 48280 (03/28/2009 1:09 PM) |
No, it wouldn't.
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Posts: 437 (03/28/2009 1:10 PM) |
Ducky Luv wrote:That's what I thought originally, and that's why I wasn't offended, but now that I know it's for his brother...I mean c'mon. |
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Posts: 15152 (03/28/2009 1:11 PM) |
How close are you with his family & brother? If you are not that close, I can see why you wouldn't be invited but if you are super close then I'd
be mad..
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Posts: 10657 (03/28/2009 1:12 PM) |
so why dont you just ask him why you weren't invited?
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Posts: 1214 (03/28/2009 1:14 PM) |
maybe his brother doesn't like you?
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Posts: 21499 (03/28/2009 1:15 PM) |
Thats weird that he doesn't take you around his family anymore..
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Posts: 31693 (03/28/2009 1:15 PM) |
This reception could have been planned before he met you and maybe they had a tight budget and didn't want to spend money on an extra person coming, no
matter who it was.
Try and get the full story out of him before reacting. |
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Posts: 438 (03/28/2009 1:16 PM) |
Momobobo wrote:Good question. lol. It's hard for me. Part of me is afraid to know the answer. |
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Posts: 439 (03/28/2009 1:17 PM) |
Triple X Tera wrote:His brother just eloped last month. This reception is just a casual thing to "celebrate" their marriage. |
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Posts: 440 (03/28/2009 1:20 PM) |
thetruthmaker wrote:I've considered that, but that doesn't make sense. I've only met him two times and I was friendly both times. If he doesn't like me it must be based on something my BF has told him which would piss me off more. lol |
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Posts: 2953 (03/28/2009 1:22 PM) |
Driedflowers wrote:I don't mean to instigate this any further (although that's exactly what's gonna happen with this reply ), but this just reminds
me of something one of my BFFs (she's a New Yorker by the way) always says: "Yo son! You just got clowned mad hard!"
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Posts: 15154 (03/28/2009 1:25 PM) |
Driedflowers wrote: You only met him 2 times in 6 months? That's probably the reason why you weren't invited. He probably doesn't even know you that well and maybe he just wanted his close friends and family there? |
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Posts: 441 (03/28/2009 1:32 PM) |
NickelodeonSucksLoL wrote:  I can't help but laugh at that. That's pretty
funny.
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