so i've been dating this guy for a few months, and things are going great. this is the first guy i've ever really thought that i could see myself
spending the rest of my life with. but, it's still very early in the relationship.
he is in the process of buying a house, so it kinda made up discuss some more serious things earlier than we would have otherwise. he has made it clear that he wants me to move into this new house in the future. so, when we talk about the house he usually refers to it as "our" house.
so yesterday we were talking about approx when i was thinking about moving in, so he can budget accordingly. i said possibly at the end of the summer, b/c that is when my lease is up on my place. he then says that he thinks we should get engaged before i move in
i didn't know what to say. personally, i think one of the biggest reasons to move in together is to see if we can live together before making any big commitments. but he thinks that it would better to have some sort of promise or agreement before i move in so that i wont worry about giving up my own place and stuff.
ugh. why does everything have to be so complicated
he is in the process of buying a house, so it kinda made up discuss some more serious things earlier than we would have otherwise. he has made it clear that he wants me to move into this new house in the future. so, when we talk about the house he usually refers to it as "our" house.
so yesterday we were talking about approx when i was thinking about moving in, so he can budget accordingly. i said possibly at the end of the summer, b/c that is when my lease is up on my place. he then says that he thinks we should get engaged before i move in
i didn't know what to say. personally, i think one of the biggest reasons to move in together is to see if we can live together before making any big commitments. but he thinks that it would better to have some sort of promise or agreement before i move in so that i wont worry about giving up my own place and stuff.
ugh. why does everything have to be so complicated
This.
