sorry if its such a personal and weird question she just wanted to know and i didnt know the answer.
Is Oral Sex as important as having sex?
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Shazamsleepy |
Is Oral Sex as important as having sex? |
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Posts: 557 (02/28/2009 6:42 PM) |
I know this must be a stupid question but I wanted to know if people dont have sex and have oral sex instead is that the same feeling as having sex? or is that
a completely different feeling from having sex. My friend asked me this and I had no idea what to answer her. She wanted if she should have oral sex with a guy
or not? since she doesnt want to have sex with him yet she is afraid to get pregnant. Are there different methods of having oral sex?
sorry if its such a personal and weird question she just wanted to know and i didnt know the answer. |
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Posts: 559 (02/28/2009 6:47 PM) |
I mean by saying methods if she needs to do anything special so the guy would like it or does she need to tell the guy what to do and how to do it so the guy
would know that she likes it. things like that. I know its a weird question but she just wanted to know and I didnt know what to tell her. No she didnt ask me
if she should have oral sex she wanted to know what to do for the guy to have pleasure and what she should do to feel the same way. Giving and receiving she
wanted to know what to do.
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x Pahk The Cah x |
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Posts: 14997 (02/28/2009 6:48 PM) |
I don't think your friend should be having sex.
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MissChellz |
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Posts: 3048 (02/28/2009 6:48 PM) |
It's okay.. you can admit it's you and not a "friend."
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Showmeyoursoul |
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Posts: 41621 (02/28/2009 6:48 PM) TMI JJBer '08 |
still confusing
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Shazamsleepy |
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Posts: 560 (02/28/2009 6:49 PM) |
its not me why would I be afraid to admit it. No one knows who I am anyways if it was me I would just say its me.
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AwfulWaffle |
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Posts: 397 (02/28/2009 6:55 PM) |
There are websites that give tutorials on giving hand jobs and blow jobs. Tell her to look them up.
Also, if she's receiving it's pretty basic moaning that lets him know she likes it. It should come naturally. |
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Posts: 7979 (02/28/2009 6:57 PM) Best Male '09
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it's kinda hard to explain. i'd say sex is like running and oral sex is like jogging. if that makes sense...it's still the same feeling, one is
just a little more intense than the other. depending on her/his level of dedication toward giving oral it can be better for lack of a better word than actual
sex. if he/she is in it to win it, then he will enjoy oral just as much as intercourse. if he/she is just doing it because they have to do it then...why
bother?
in my experiences it's easier for a woman to have an orgasm during oral, but of course that's not true for all girls. for the guy the feeling is pretty much the same. (pardon my language) his penis is going in and out of a wet hole...for girls it's a little different as in oral the clit is being stimulated more than the insides of the vagina (i don't really know how different if feels though). |
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AwfulWaffle |
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Posts: 399 (02/28/2009 6:59 PM) |
^It's very different.
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mshinda |
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Posts: 6722 (02/28/2009 7:03 PM) |
Shazamsleepy wrote:*scratches head* If she is mentally ready to have sex, there are methods to avoid pregnancy. If the real deal is she's not ready for sex, she shouldn't be having oral either. I'm too...speechless to answer anything else really. |
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Posts: 4979 (02/28/2009 8:28 PM) |
I'd rather someone give me oral than do the real deal, but I don't think I would want her. If she's asking you questions like this she must be very
inexperienced and I don't have time to train grown ass people.
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Gemini9857 |
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Posts: 23901 (02/28/2009 8:30 PM) |
I had oral sex before having sex... but if she's asking about it IMO she's not ready.
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Posts: 7656 (02/28/2009 9:40 PM) |
whoa i love this post
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