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I love my ex boyfriend. I've known him since i was 14 (I'm 18 going on 19.) He was my first high school crush so pretty much he's really special to me. When we broke up I've noticed that I didn't appreciate everything he was doing in the relationship. I wasn't gaga for him like I use to be when I was younger, basically because I haven't heard of him for a long time and I moved on. When he asked me out I said yes just to see what would happen. The relationship started to fizzle because I had no time for him, and I needed to tell my mother something very important (that was bad) before I ever introduced him to her or told her that we were a couple, so every time I would try to go out it was always a hassle with my mom. But anyway, when we broke up I noticed that i didn't do the things I've always wanted to do with him, and basically he's pretty much the best boyfriend I've had. He's funny, cute, smart, charming, sweet, blah blah blah lol. Unfortunately he's in a relationship with a girl that was almost the first one to be pregnant in my school (yeah...) And well when he asked me out he told me he wanted to start being in a serious relationship because he's tired of being in BS relationships. So he's probably thinking of being in a serious relationship with that girl, which makes things hard for me. We've been ignoring each other for a month, and I really really miss him. I want to talk to him, I want to tell him what I feel without driving him away, but i just don't know how to approach him. Should i wait until he's single, or what? If I were to go talk to him now, I would just want to tell him that we should stop ignoring each other, thing's would be so much better if he would just talk to me. And no, I'm not trying to mess his current relationship up, I want no bad karma coming my way. But I just don't know what to do. And yes I want them to break up but not because of me. Thing is I think I lost a really special guy, and I want him back. And please don't tell me to move on, cause I really can't.
Any advice?
I love my ex boyfriend. I've known him since i was 14 (I'm 18 going on 19.) He was my first high school crush so pretty much he's really special to me. When we broke up I've noticed that I didn't appreciate everything he was doing in the relationship. I wasn't gaga for him like I use to be when I was younger, basically because I haven't heard of him for a long time and I moved on. When he asked me out I said yes just to see what would happen. The relationship started to fizzle because I had no time for him, and I needed to tell my mother something very important (that was bad) before I ever introduced him to her or told her that we were a couple, so every time I would try to go out it was always a hassle with my mom. But anyway, when we broke up I noticed that i didn't do the things I've always wanted to do with him, and basically he's pretty much the best boyfriend I've had. He's funny, cute, smart, charming, sweet, blah blah blah lol. Unfortunately he's in a relationship with a girl that was almost the first one to be pregnant in my school (yeah...) And well when he asked me out he told me he wanted to start being in a serious relationship because he's tired of being in BS relationships. So he's probably thinking of being in a serious relationship with that girl, which makes things hard for me. We've been ignoring each other for a month, and I really really miss him. I want to talk to him, I want to tell him what I feel without driving him away, but i just don't know how to approach him. Should i wait until he's single, or what? If I were to go talk to him now, I would just want to tell him that we should stop ignoring each other, thing's would be so much better if he would just talk to me. And no, I'm not trying to mess his current relationship up, I want no bad karma coming my way. But I just don't know what to do. And yes I want them to break up but not because of me. Thing is I think I lost a really special guy, and I want him back. And please don't tell me to move on, cause I really can't.
Any advice?
