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PlaySka4me		#21	[-]
Posts: 19048 (02/01/2009 2:05 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	He's fucking her. Break up with him, tell your friend she is a whore, and fuck his best friend for revenge (unless he's ugly).
merchasa		#22	[-]
Posts: 1077 (02/01/2009 2:14 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Maybe the male best friend knows his true feelings and hates that he treats you that way. DITTO!!!! WAKE UP!!!
Tachiwaka13		#23	[-]
Posts: 25785 (02/01/2009 2:27 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	luckySC 0409 wrote: They've known each other since early last school year, before we started dating. I guess I don't technically know that anything physical is going on, but as much as I sound like the lame doesn't-realize-something-is-going-on-when-it's-right-in-front-of-her-face girlfriend, I honestly don't think anything is physically going on between them. I feel like this is more of an emotional thing. I don't expect him to tell me everything; I don't tell him everything that is going on with me. But I do feel like he values their friendship more than our friendship (not our romantic relationship per se, but our friendship that's a part of that...does that make sense?). One time a few weeks ago, when my boyfriend and I were both sober and I was staying at his place, she called at like 1 a.m. and said she was locked out her apartment and couldn't get a hold of her roommates. We were literally out the door before he was off the phone with her to pick her up, and I honestly wondered to myself, "would he be out the door like that if I was the one calling?" I'm going to talk to him tonight. It's been bothering me for a while, and I think last night's closed door thing was something that really needs to be brought up. My roommate was livid when she saw that. Yes, yes, yes. I don't know you, but if you talk to him, update this shit so I can see how to handle something like that
Semirhage626		#24	[-]
Posts: 5775 (02/01/2009 2:40 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	DarthRedimo wrote: He is in love with her but she only likes him as a friend. You are fine unless she gets drunk and horny.
chickadee0193		#25	[-]
Posts: 4217 (02/01/2009 2:58 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I'm on the boat that he's into her but she seems him as just a friend. Sound like she enjoys the attention she gets from him and the fact that he's at her beck and call. I don't think the OP is stupid for thinking that there isn't anything physical going on. However, I do think the boyfriend would WANT something physical if his friend saw him that way.
ALR83		#26	[-]
Posts: 52334 (02/01/2009 3:01 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	timberpond02 wrote: You are an idiot if you think that nothing physically is going on between them. If she is on his bed comfortably then they were doing something. I don't want to call her an idiot but yeah I'd be willing to bet there is something physical going on. It seems obvious I think. But I also don't trust people to begin with, so that would be my first thought. PlaySka4me wrote: He's fucking her. Break up with him, tell your friend she is a whore, and fuck his best friend for revenge (unless he's ugly). LOL yeah. chickadee0193 wrote: I'm on the boat that he's into her but she seems him as just a friend. Sound like she enjoys the attention she gets from him and the fact that he's at her beck and call. Wouldn't doubt it. Someone who shows such inconsideration for a "friend" by pretty much hogging her boyfriend is shady imo.
LadyK81988		#27	[-]
Posts: 24391 (02/01/2009 3:15 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	He seems to be in love with her, and not so much into you. Sorry.
Showmeyoursoul		#28	[-]
Posts: 40362 (02/01/2009 3:23 PM) TMI JJBer '08 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	be sure to update after your talk...
Courtney Love1		#29	[-]
Posts: 4232 (02/01/2009 3:28 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Please get away immediately from both of these people. They both sound attention-whorish, skanky and selfish. And they also both sound like they could not give a shit less about you. Edited By: Courtney Love1 02/01/2009 3:39 PM. Edited 1 times.
Kwis77		#30	[-]
Posts: 15905 (02/01/2009 3:38 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I am going to agree with everyone else. :/ It sounds like he has feelings for her. She's probably got some ulterior motives, too.
grayspeckledgoose		#31	[-]
Posts: 14072 (02/01/2009 3:45 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	merchasa wrote: Hes just not that into you. ....and he's more into the other chick.
Linn		#32	[-]
Posts: 290 (02/01/2009 3:55 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Yeah, this is so not acceptable.
lilSS		#33	[-]
Posts: 11080 (02/01/2009 4:05 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	You already know the answer to all of this. He wants her, not you. Ugly truth but the truth. His actions point to that. When I was a freshman in college, this guy that I had been going out with for most of the year was getting a little too chummy with a so called friend. He denied. She denied. One night, I got this weird itch to go take a walk...it was past midnight. Low and behold, I end up walking right into them walking back towards the girls side of the campus. They swore nothing was going on. Im cussing him out, he is swearing up and down that nothing was going on. Shortly after transferred to another school, they were together. So no, I wasnt paranoid, delusion or insecure as he was trying to convince me I was. My gut was telling me something and I went with it. Please dont be the silly girl in this situation. Its clear as crystal whats going on. There is no reason for you to even talk to this dude, not really. The writing is on the wall.
BADattitudeGal		#34	[-]
Posts: 1212 (02/01/2009 4:11 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	hmmm... u need to talk to him
grayspeckledgoose		#35	[-]
Posts: 14073 (02/01/2009 4:20 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I find that your gut is usually always right. Go with whatever your gut is telling you!
Lillies In Bloom		#36	[-]
Posts: 34198 (02/01/2009 5:08 PM) Biggest Scandal '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	You MUST talk to him. Don't back off from the issue.
doorear		#37	[-]
Posts: 10991 (02/01/2009 5:09 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	SweetCherry69 wrote: HE IS CHEATING ON YOU WITH HER. wake up and smell the coffee
theonlysassyone		#38	[-]
Posts: 1389 (02/01/2009 5:39 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	A little Advice, TAKE OFF THOSE ROSE COLOURED GLASSES!!! He is SO into her, in both senses..
lovleybones		#39	[-]
Posts: 922 (02/01/2009 7:48 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	SweetCherry69 wrote: HE IS CHEATING ON YOU WITH HER. wake up and smell the coffee That.
inheritedhornet		#40	[-]
Posts: 1382 (02/01/2009 8:02 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	so when you confront him and he denies it what do you plan to do?

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