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Sometimes i wish i weren't so shy (I did it,i talked to him) |
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Posts: 2951 (05/04/2008 9:50 PM) |
There is this guy who works the food bar at a restaurant me and my parent's like going to eat at. every time i go in he and i exchange looks and smiles but
i never can go up to him and talk to him because of me being so shy.
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a family friend of ours is a waitress there and she says he is shy as well.
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Posts: 4031 (05/04/2008 9:55 PM) |
Aww, that's sucks. I'm shy as well, and I dated a guy who was also shy. Basically it went no where because we were both too introverted. Sad as it
sounds, you're probably better off finding an extrovert to pull you out of your shell.
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Posts: 2952 (05/04/2008 10:02 PM) |
It does suck and my friend says he is a really great guy once he gets to know you and is not so shy. i feel like i miss out on so many guys because of me being
shy.
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Posts: 9726 (05/04/2008 10:06 PM) |
I can empthasize.
Though, I'm beginning to wonder if my problem is more a lack of confidence than shyness. I certainly don't exhibit shyness in anything else. |
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Posts: 3731 (05/04/2008 10:07 PM) |
JCfanaddict wrote: I'm super shy as well, and very quiet around people I don't know. That's why I could never 'date' me! |
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Posts: 25397 (05/04/2008 10:10 PM) News Editor |
Have a couple drinks, you won't be shy anymore. Okay anymore is a bit drastic but you won't be shy for a couple hours.
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Posts: 2953 (05/04/2008 10:18 PM) |
chelley0223 wrote: I have the lack of confidence thing going for me as well, i look at him and i think "why would he want me? he could have someone so much
prettier." although my mom says whenever i sit with my back to him and she is facing the bar she will catch him time to time looking at me. i do the same
when i am facing him.. |
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Posts: 9727 (05/04/2008 10:22 PM) |
I feel like a school girl, too. My friend tells me that I'm stuck at age 13, and I'm 33! I know this guy looks for me everytime I go to his games, and he brightens up when he sees me. So why be so "shy" or unsure? My lack of confidence is due to my weight, though. |
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Posts: 2954 (05/04/2008 10:24 PM) |
chelley0223 wrote: Mine obviously is my looks. my brother saw him the other day when we went to eat and he was like "why would that guy want you?" that did not help at all because i was sitting there thinking "i know your right." |
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Posts: 9728 (05/04/2008 10:29 PM) |
Have a couple drinks, you won't be shy anymore. Okay anymore is a bit drastic but you won't be shy for a couple hours.The guy I like might be joining me and two of my friends at Dave and Busters on Saturday night after my graduation. He told me to call him when we go (he's going to be helping his rugby team host a gold tournament during the day). If he goes, I hope to have a coule drinks in me by the time he gets there. |
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Posts: 2955 (05/04/2008 10:36 PM) |
Angelpopstar7 wrote: That is what another friend suggested but the thing he is he works at a family type restraunt. this has been going on for a few months now and my poor
parent's hate asking me where i want to eat because they know i will suggest the place he works at..lol.
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Posts: 9729 (05/04/2008 10:38 PM) |
Maybe your friend who works there can suggest that he join her and some friends after work sometime for drinks, and you happen to be one of those friends?
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Posts: 2956 (05/04/2008 10:44 PM) |
chelley0223 wrote: I've been thinking about doing that but i fear if he agreed to it then it would be just as bad like i would not be able to talk to him. course if my friends got enough drinks in me i would come out of my shell and probably make a fool of myself. i just really fear i am intrested in him and he is not intrested in me. |
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Posts: 1864 (05/04/2008 10:46 PM) |
I used to be UBER shy. Like, anyone of the opposite sex would talk to me and I would blush. How old are you? I'm still on the shy side but I feel more
normal.
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Posts: 1865 (05/04/2008 10:48 PM) |
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Posts: 1866 (05/04/2008 10:52 PM) |
I used to be UBER shy. Like, anyone of the opposite sex would talk to me and I would blush. How old are you? I'm still on the shy side but I feel more
normal.
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Posts: 2957 (05/04/2008 10:57 PM) |
PINK insomniac DAY wrote: 25 and i know i should not still be this way but i am. when i think of going up trying to make conversation with him i get so sick to my stomach. |
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Posts: 9730 (05/04/2008 11:01 PM) |
Hey, I'm 33 and I'm the same way. Of course, while I've had crushes before, I haven't liked any of the guys as much as I like this one.
Sometimes I think HE'S trying to get me to loosen up. When we go to dinner, he orders alcohol and asks if I want any. He's bought me a bottle of wine for no reason. And when I go to hus rugby games he'll go get him a beer and come back with one for me. |
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Posts: 1867 (05/04/2008 11:03 PM) |
Ohh hun I'm so sorry you feel so bad about talking to him! You must really like him! How about you get like 2-3 drinks in you before so you can talk to him
and not make a fool of yourself (and then stop drinking if you fear acting a fool). I think that would loosen the ice!!
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Posts: 25400 (05/04/2008 11:05 PM) News Editor |
Well, you should just have a couple drinks before you go in and work up the nerve to ask him out.
And while I suggest this, I would never do it myself
because I'm shy too. But when I'm out and have alcohol in my system, I'm definitely more outgoing.
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Posts: 3611 (05/04/2008 11:06 PM) |
i'm so shy when it comes to boys. I get scared to talk to them.
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i feel like a fricking school girl every time i
am around him and i am in my 20's. i swear my chest flutters every time i see him..
