karen6778 wrote:
I would have taken a different approach. Bringing up the subject of "hot girl" will only make him defensive and he'll just turn it around and call you insecure. ( even though you're not) . The next time he "shares" with you about hot girl. You should "share " too. Just act nonchalant and say you saw the hottest guy today, too walking down the street or at the gym ( you fill in the blank). Go into excruciating detail on why he was so dreamy. Do this every time he brings up "hot girl" When he "shares" you "share" I guarantee you, he will drop it like a bad habit. Did this on an ex-boyfriend and it worked like a charm
I could never do that 'cause I'm scared I might hurt the person I'm with. For me, if I'm with someone I'd let that person know that he's the best guy in every possible way. And that would be true 'cause I simply don't notice other guys when I'm in a relationship. Brad Pitt could  walk past me and I wouldn't give him a second glance. But I do see where you're coming from and if I wasn't daft I would give your approach a go

Thank you for your opinions guys. It was a great help