if a guy doesn't want a baby he needs to take his own precautions...either don't have sex or protect yourself even if the girl is or says shes on birth control

i'm seeing someone who insists on using condoms 90% of the time even though i'm on birth control because he's seriously not ready to have a baby. and as much as i trust birth control...you really never know. sometimes i take it at different times by accident...and there's def been a few times where i forget to take it one day...so it's def not a bad idea to be safe in more ways than one