Biology isn't fair it's as simple as that. It is the woman's body it should be the woman's choice. Men can (and some do) say they. want the baby and then somewhere down the line they change their mind and disappear They can change their mind at a point where it's too late for a woman change her mind. In a perfect world the man would still be held financially responsible for the child but realistically many get away with not paying child support. A man is able to back out and a woman can't. If he backs out before the birth and she decides not to raise the baby she must go through with pregnancy and childbirth. If he backs out after the baby is born she may end up raising a child sans emotional and financial support.

If he truly doesn't want a child he needs to use protection every time. But then accidents happen so he should find out if his partner is pro-choice or pro-life, and then also remember that a woman may change her mind on that matter. Same thing goes if he's against abortion. So maybe the best option is too snot have sex. Sounds unfair, but really it's biology that's "not fair".

It is good for women to talk with their partners but also realize that they may have to bear all of the repercussions of the decision and do what feels best.