Ideally, I think men and women should talk about what they would do in the case of a pregnancy before they have sex, and have a plan on how they'll act together when/if the time comes. I know it hardly ever happens that way, but if you're smart, you'll talk about it beforehand - especially if you're the guy and you know you have no power or say once the time comes.

In my opinion it's certainly a decision that should be made and agreed upon by the prospective mother and father beforehand and ideally, neither party should be voiceless or powerless when the final choice is made.

Ugh. Wouldn't it be nice if it really worked that way?