AeroSync9 wrote:
My opinion is that if it takes 2 people to create life and it takes 2 people to mutually decide to have unprotected sex then 2 people should decide what happens afterwards. 

Yes it's the woman's body and she has to go through carrying the child and the pains of labor, but as a woman, I feel the man should get a say so in the after affects of sex.  Woman doesn't want the baby, but the man does then fine after she gives birth she signs her parental rights away and gives him the child.
That's a wonderful thought but how many guys do you think would ACTUALLY be willing to take the baby? With most of them, I'm sure they're all talk until it comes time for a little bit of responsibility. After the woman carries the baby for 9 months, gives birth, and guy decides he doesn't want it...what next? Adoption, sure, but that's not fair to the woman. She had to carry the baby, she had to give birth to it and he can just walk away.

I don't care if the guy didn't want it in the first place, that baby is now his financial obligation. He chose to have unprotected sex, he knows the consequences. Shit happens. Just because the woman decided she wants to keep the baby doesn't mean he can just run away. That's not fair to her and it's not fair to the baby.