LostYoMind wrote:
women shouldn't spread their legs to men who will run away from consequences.

well that is good in theory, but there are a lot of guys that say they will be there to support the child, some may stay for a few years then take off. when a guy carries the baby for 9 months and gives birth. then he has a choice. im very clear that im childfree and will never have kids. so i dont get in that situation. if a guy tells me he wants kids then i wont date him