We spent about $20,000. But instead of one day, we celebrated for an entire week. We rented a villa in Tuscany and 30 friends and family flew over. We had a weeks worth of activities and awesome catered meals, plus case after case after case of wine. Renting a villa in Italy that sleeps 30 for 7 nights was STILL cheaper than the garden I had wanted to rent in my hometown for 5 hour and provided a great kickoff for our honeymoon.