WhiskeyWhispers wrote:
There are a lot of women who get offended when a man tries to pay for anything for her, so maybe he's dealt with a lot of women like that. Who knows, but this wouldn't be a big deal to me. I go into everything wanting to pay for my own.


I agree. I'm an independent person and I like to pay for things myself. However, if a guy wants to offer to pay for me once or twice, I won't say no..but I wouldn't go on the date expecting it. I think some people on JJB have been reading too many of those dating books. Is there a rule that says "the guy should pay for the first date automatically?" Please. Why can't us women take control sometime? Some guys don't mind paying but some are actually turned on by an independent woman who can pay her own way. And yeah..lyric, I'm actually turned off by your attitude just like everyone else here. What you did was low. You could have just offer to pay for yourself instead of leaving him with the bill. That's cruel.