insomniachollie wrote:
I always go out expecting to pay my way - it's nice if somebody offers, but I'd never assume. Astonishes me how entitled women seem to feel we are.
I agree. I don't understand why some women act like the man is obligated to pay for them. My belief is the person who suggested the restaurant and/or initiated the date should be the one paying. On a first date I think both should be prepared to pay for their own meals. If you can't afford to pay for your own meal then you shouldn't be going out to eat. If you are expecting the man to pay then you should tell him that.