ok before anyone loses their shit, i appreciate all the responses and feedback. Now i'm not saying this is going to happen... it might not.. i don't even know if he's serious about moving or whatever... we are just TALKING at this stage.

I am considering all my options for the next few months, so we'll see. I have absolutly nothing to lose from this, i just said it was a bad idea because of the crush thing, and i just think its not the smartest thing to do. But its not dangerous or crazy or anything.