Lets Hug It Out wrote:
Judging by your responses you want to do this. That said, why not just have him get the apartment on his own, then move in with him on a trial basis? That way you aren't stuck with an apartment you can't pay by yourself and if things don't work out, you can easily just move out

  I DO want to move in with him... but i also know its not the most responsible thing to do, and thus possibly making me want to move in with him more. But your responses are also making me think quiet hard about consequences. So like i said, its all prelim at this point, but yes.. bad boys and bad decisions are always appealing until they kick you in the ass. Btw i would never put my name on the lease. Its him thats got the most to lose from this, cuz he would be moving cities and stuff.

I still have time before he comes to visit so we'll figure it out till then. Just wanted other viewpoints before i do anything serious.