i am NOT taking care of him lol. he is totally gonna pay his own way... i think he didn't move out here the same reason i'm not moving out yet myself.. not enough motivation and no real excuse. but yes.. i agree with you thread killer, IF we do decide to do this, and i say IF because right now we're only half serious about this, there are many things we will have to sort out and discuss.

Thanks for getting my head turning with all the possible outcomes.