Mistress Darcy wrote:
Making out to me includes that type of stuff. I guess that makes me a ho. Like, if someone said they made out with someone I wouldn't be stunned if some sort of fingering or oral sex occurred during that making out. I am baffled why he would be upset.
THANK YOU.

And yes, hacking my email (and facebook and myspace) was definitely a trust-buster. And he had HUGE insecurities, but I was the dummy who loved him enough to be willing to work through them. Believe me, lesson learned.