AudaciousAudrey wrote:
daisy bouquet wrote:
I dont know that I would write him off for that - there might be more to the story. Maybe he is sending all his extra money to his grandmother to help with her medical bills or something admirable like that.
Yea but either way... if a guy can't afford to buy me 2 beers then that probably isn't a guy I would want to date.




Whitgirl, yes he asked me out on the date. When the bartender asked us what we wanted to drink he gave us our drinks and asked how we were paying and the guy I went out with said he had a card and then looked at me and said "Are you paying with cash or credit?"

Yea that's the thing. My last boyfriend took me out to a nice restaurant and my portion of the bill alone was $40 on our first date and I offered to pay for my portion of the meal but he still paid. Beers are $3.50 where I went, it wasn't even expensive compared to dinner

And yea I agree that women should pay their portion once in a while but a first date I expect the guy to pay for whatever date we're going on the very first time we meet. Second date is a whole different story.