Once I moved in with my long term boyfriend we stopped using condoms. If I'm on antibiotics or if I missed a pill (which I've never done yet) we'd probably not have sex for the week; neither of us enjoy sex with a condom, but we dealt with it until we were long term and trusted each other enough to not cheat. Which also was helped by the fact that we worked together and lived together so we pretty much were with each other 24/7 We do use the spermicide and/or the sponge a lot of the time because I do tend get paranoid about pregnancy even with the pill.