we put our toilet by our trash... someone "stole" that too... no wait, it was intended to be trashed bc it was near the trash pile, so the person took it off my hands and off my property which was more than fine by me..why? bc it was in the trash pile.
i don't understand why you seem so offended that you put your used mattress by the trash and someone took it? i guess you were waiting on her to ask you? sounds stupid to me.