ValpoKC wrote:
I agree with the others who said a "hang out" date is not appropriate. The problem is he should be taking you out on proper dates... dinner, movies , etc. especially in the beginning of what may or may not become a relationship. when you agree to these hang out dates so early on, you set a precedence that he doesn't have to put much work at all into dating you. he'll want to have lamo hang out dates all the time and why not...doesn't cost him anything and there's a good chance he'll get some sex out of it. I would have sweetly turned him down.You don't want to become the good for now girlfriend. Just thought i throw out my two cents image


That is a very good point. I didn't look at it like that. However, i'm not really sure you can even constitute it as a date date b/c we aren't going out. Plus he worked all day and wants to just go home which is understandable.

That's what she's saying. That it's not a date, because you are just hanging out and it seems like he wants to hook up with you and not take you out.