Exactly. I'm relieved i'm not the only one that smells a rat. And it may be more sinister than him screwing someone. Check it. We have some mutual friends . And one of then told me his ex's dad is a gangster, and that his ex is mentally unstable. She threatened to burn down his house.

So I asked him, directly, has someone connected with her,or has she, threatened me in some way. He said no. I am not going to let this rest.