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11/12/2009 3:14 PM
chelley0223 wrote: I think more than anything, you need to make time to do something for you. Like the above, sometimes it's ok to say 'no' and step back just to breathe. You would think so, wouldn't you? I'm often made to feel like I'm a bitch when I don't help because she just needs soooooo much of it. That's one of the things that stresses me...people seeming to think that I owe them everything. When things go wrong, its blamed on me...because I don't help. If she loses her job because she can't get to work because the car she had (that was paid for by me) was totaled, then its my fault because I didn't take her to work. And yet, there are other people who didn't help either, but its only MY fault. And she's not the only one that treats me like that.
I think more than anything, you need to make time to do something for you. Like the above, sometimes it's ok to say 'no' and step back just to breathe.
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