He's not worth your time, and I agree, I think you were used. Like you said, he has time to shoot other people messages but can't even devote a few minutes to giving you a status update. That would make me feel like I wasn't important enough to keep up with. And he's being a pussy about it too, trying to turn the situation around, because he doesn't have the balls to tell you what went wrong & why he really doesn't want to see you. And he says you made up your mind so forget it all? Sounds like he already forgot about it all. Well, he wasn't worthy for you to begin with- wouldn't you rather have a man that wants to fight for your affection? Not in the physical sense, but just do whatever it takes to make it work. If I were you, I wouldn't invest any more time into him, I wouldn't even shoot him back a reply in defense.