CamiDawg wrote:
The conversation has definitely come up...but in a very casual way. I say I think I want to get married, he says he thinks so too, eventually. He's not ready for kids now, but would like them, maybe.

We're both 23. I guess what I'm wondering is should I be getting a definite yes or no. I've also been a but flip-floppy also, so maybe it's time for me to say that I do definitely want to get married and have kids (maybe not ready to do both at this moment) and see what he says.

ALSO, usually when we talk about this we will talk about "the person we marry" and never just us. We haven't really gotten to the point where I'm saying "when I marry you..." Too complicated!
Hmm. That's tough. My ex always said he didn't want to get married or have kids, but that he could change his mind when he got older. I hated hearing that because I know I definitely want both of those things. You guys are still pretty young but I think it's kind of important to know what you want out of life. If you are starting to feel like you're sure of what you want and you might be on a different page, maybe you should talk to him about it. I couldn't imagine dating someone for 6 years and him talking about his future so vaguely and without me in it. But if you've both been unsure until now then I guess that's different.